This is the story of how I left a job as a manager in industry and became a househusband. It's the story of how I left behind budgets, balance sheets and delivery deadlines and entered the world of nappies, pushchairs or strollers and teletubbies.

I realize that I was lucky to be able to make the choice. Most men would see themselves as the major wage earner in their family. Thankfully, my wife, Angela, has a career of her own and is able to support us on her money alone.

I left university in the late nineteen-eighties and took up a job in engineering. My career took my family up and down the United Kingdom. During that time, we managed, somehow, to fit in three children, while Angela continued in her chosen career of nursing.

It was in my last job that I first began to think about a lifestyle change. Angela had decided to take a break in her career after the birth of Ethan, our youngest. I was running a factory and I wasn't enjoying it. Manufacturing is a hard industry to be in with pressures from competitors all over the world. If I am to be honest, I hadn't been enjoying my job for a while.

I was working up to eighty hours a week for something that I no longer believed in. I was missing out on seeing my wife and my children. My weekends were interrupted by meetings and phone calls. Rarely a night went by without some sort of contact with the factory. My priorities in life were at odds with the company I was working for. It was far from family-friendly. Things had to change.

It was while we were on a family holiday in Brittany that we decided to think about making a change in the way we lived our lives. While Angela and I relaxed over our cheese and wine, we talked about my job, our current lifestyle and how I could change things to make life more tolerable for us all. I resolved to change my working patterns on my return. No longer would I allow work to intrude on my family life.

My new approach worked - until lunchtime on my first day back. Then, I descended back into the hell that I'd left before as one problem followed on from the next. I felt out of control.

So that was that. We decided to look at a lifestyle change with Angela going out to work and with me staying at home. Angela was eager to return to her career after an eighteen-month absence.